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Da Brat and Judy Harris-Dupart Share Relationship Wisdom in New Book Teaser Exclusive
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Hip-hop legend Da Brat and her wife, Jesseca “Judy” Harris-Dupart, shared intimate relationship advice in an exclusive interview published by DIVA magazine on January 23, 2026. The couple, celebrated in LGBTQ+ media for their visible love story, teased excerpts from their forthcoming book, "The Way Love Goes: A Guide to Building a “Beautiful” and Everlasting Relationship", set for release on February 3, 2026.
Da Brat, born Shawntae Harris, and Judy first met in 2017, experiencing instant chemistry that initially led separate paths. They reconnected at the Essence Festival, prompting Da Brat to publicly come out as part of a same-sex relationship in March 2020. Their union evolved into marriage two years later, followed by the birth of their son, True Legend Harris-Dupart, on July 6, 2023.
The couple's journey has been documented on their We TV reality series "Brat Loves Judy", which ran for three seasons and included "Brat Loves Judy: The Baby Special", marking them as the first LGBTQ+ female power couple featured prominently in such programming. This visibility has resonated within LGBTQ+ communities, showcasing Black lesbian love, parenthood, and partnership in mainstream media.
In the DIVA exclusive, conducted by Nic Crosara with images by Charlton Inije, Judy emphasized maintaining spark in long-term relationships: “Be open to new things, listen to what your partner isn’t saying by paying attention. Da Brat described their best date, noting Judy roleplayed in heels and sexy lingerie, positioning herself as “the entrée. On finances, Judy advised proactive discussions: “If there’s ever a bad day, or season, you don’t. . wanna find out then.
These "golden rules"form the core of their book, described as part memoir and part guide, drawing from their experiences as a high-profile lesbian couple navigating fame, business, and family. Da Brat's path to openness contrasted her earlier belief she would remain closeted lifelong amid sexuality rumors. Judy, CEO of Kaleidoscope Hair Products, brought entrepreneurial insight, stressing compartmentalization during challenges.
Their story underscores themes vital to LGBTQ+ audiences: authentic communication, mutual respect, and defying stereotypes in queer relationships. The DIVA feature promotes pre-orders via their U-Haul Issue, aligning with the magazine's 30-year mission for LGBTQIA+ women and gender-diverse people. Community responses, echoed in promotional coverage, praise the couple for normalizing Black lesbian excellence and family-building.
Da Brat's career milestones, including her 2021 TV history-making with Judy and appearances on shows like "The Chi" and "Queens", contextualize their influence. As DIVA operates under the DIVA Charitable Trust, their platform amplifies queer voices globally. The interview arrives amid rising interest in LGBTQ+ relationship narratives, offering practical wisdom from lived experience.
